Friday, April 13, 2012
Home cooked Chicken Curry and Long beans
Saliva dropped enough? :)
Watching and learning from my mom to cooked our home cooked chicken curry ingredients. We don't use curry packets, we use natural ingredients. and learning from my mom is a good oppurtunity. you see my dad will go : Stephanie, learn cooking from mama la... Watch tv only... ahaha... that's ME and yes I do learn how to cook and I know how to cook.. it's just that I'm lazy when it comes to learning it eventhough its pretty easy... It;'s not hard....
Home cooked food is the best one as you know we don't put coocnut or we dont use ajinomoto like what most restaurants do put in to make the taste more Nicer or more delicious... The negative part of Ajinomoto is they make our hair drop!
Enjoy the food :))
Lunch @ Sek Yuen Jalan Pudu
This was post dated few weeks back..Now only im blogging about it....
Went for lunch here with my parents ...
To give you a bit of background, Sek Yuen in the 50s is probably the Shang Palace today. In case you do not know, Shang Palace is one of the poshest Chinese restaurants in Kuala Lumpur. Dining at Sek Yuen in the 50s means that your family is probably well-off. That is the case for my dad. His father owns a soap and detergent factory. I guess that explains.
My dad ordered few dishes as what we always ordered when we are eating outside. We don't practice eating out as my parents always cooked... Home cooked food is always the best! Don;t you agree?
Sweet potato leaves
Chives and intestines
Sweet and sour pork
The meals was not so expensive... budgetary wise prolly around 30-40....
Not so good for the food quality and the taste.
Rating : 5/10
Went for lunch here with my parents ...
To give you a bit of background, Sek Yuen in the 50s is probably the Shang Palace today. In case you do not know, Shang Palace is one of the poshest Chinese restaurants in Kuala Lumpur. Dining at Sek Yuen in the 50s means that your family is probably well-off. That is the case for my dad. His father owns a soap and detergent factory. I guess that explains.
My dad ordered few dishes as what we always ordered when we are eating outside. We don't practice eating out as my parents always cooked... Home cooked food is always the best! Don;t you agree?
The meals was not so expensive... budgetary wise prolly around 30-40....
Not so good for the food quality and the taste.
Rating : 5/10
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Smash - Mr & Mrs Smith
Call the Justice of the Peace,
But don't tell him our names,
Don't put out a press release,
Or mention baseball games.
Book the nearest Bridal suite,
One room will suit us fine,
For the desk clerk that we meet,
The only autograph we'll sign is,
Mr and Mrs smith,
Simply the folks next door,
People without a single clue what
an Agent or Grip is for
Yes,
Nothing can beat the view,
When as far as the eye can see, there's
No one but Mrs,
No one but Mr,
Smith and Me.
For a home the man provides,
A cottage built for two,
We'll check the small town classifieds,
Variety won't do.
Then we'll move to mainstream USA,
And sign the deed of trust,
The mailbox at our hideaway,
Will tell the whole wide world that we're just,
Mr and Mrs smith,
Merely the folks next door,
People who use their kitchen each night,
And never been into chores,
Yeah,
Nothing can beat the view,
For as far as the eye can see, there's
No one but Mrs,
No one but Mr,
Smith and Me. No early calls,
No big premieres,
No less romantic theme,
We'll spend the nights,
Making our own,
Little league baseball team,
We're no one you've ever seen,
Movie stars don't live anywhere here,
Except on the local drive-in screen,
Yes,
I'd gladly disappear,
If it might guarantee a view of,
No one but Mr,
No one but Mrs,
Smith and You
Friday, March 30, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Friday, March 23, 2012
Thursday, March 22, 2012
UN DECIDED - NO COMMENT NO TITLE
I'm having massive migraine, head pain since yesterday untill today ... NOW!!
The moment I stand up, i feel shaky... I'm drowsy...very drowsy....
I just want myself back~!~!
Somehow or rather I'm not able to do it...
So many things in my head which yes its true I can;t concernrate to what I'm doing which is very bad.
So many negatives things arising in my head... sometimes I feel empty less...
So many negatives makes me to do what I don't want to do or not supposed to do it....
So many negatives makes me to hurt myself.. which I finds it bored...and worthless..
So many negatives leads myself to tell myself all the time I'M NOT XXXXXX !!
That effing word have been haunted myself, counting 23 years... Oh Lord, please help me~!~!
So many negatives makes me to don;t know what to say or talk....
GIVES ME MIGRAINE!! and growing white hairs!!! Haih.....
So many negatives spoiling myself....
Reminding myself positive words doesn't help myself.. somehow or rather...
WHY??? I have no clue....
DEAD
If I'm that xxxxxxxx, I wouldn't be here....
The moment I stand up, i feel shaky... I'm drowsy...very drowsy....
I just want myself back~!~!
Somehow or rather I'm not able to do it...
So many things in my head which yes its true I can;t concernrate to what I'm doing which is very bad.
So many negatives things arising in my head... sometimes I feel empty less...
So many negatives makes me to do what I don't want to do or not supposed to do it....
So many negatives makes me to hurt myself.. which I finds it bored...and worthless..
So many negatives leads myself to tell myself all the time I'M NOT XXXXXX !!
That effing word have been haunted myself, counting 23 years... Oh Lord, please help me~!~!
So many negatives makes me to don;t know what to say or talk....
GIVES ME MIGRAINE!! and growing white hairs!!! Haih.....
So many negatives spoiling myself....
Reminding myself positive words doesn't help myself.. somehow or rather...
WHY??? I have no clue....
DEAD
If I'm that xxxxxxxx, I wouldn't be here....
Friday, March 9, 2012
Thursday, March 8, 2012
B.O.R.E.D.O.M
I'm BORED,,, yes I am... Im singing in my office room...what people says : BOSS not around, can sing song.. but to me NO ... SOOOO QUIIEETTTT!!!! Sieenzzz.... do exercise also finished... thinking what to do.... what to do... Clean and tidy boss room done!
Lighting : Waiting for ppl to repair and stock
Brain not functioning somore.... Geez~!~!
Lighting : Waiting for ppl to repair and stock
Brain not functioning somore.... Geez~!~!
My Birthdayyy =)
YIPPIEEE!!!!!!
My humble boss gave me 'Samsung Galaxy S2" as a birthday present~!~1 SOO NICE off him... but I totallly LOVE it.... After so many years, this time only I have an Android mobile for good...
Happy also cause got a nice boss and I like to work and learn from him... As you see, I'm so OUT Of the business world... Observing how people talking about business makes me nervous sometimes as I don;t know what to talk about.. A whole new change as I used to attend Fashion Events or Modeling Events only....
Psst ** My dad said, "SOOO NICEEE a your boss give you mobile... I told him He is a Nice boss... and when Im playing games, my dad complain.. LOL...
~*** HAPPPYYYYY HAPPPYYYY***~~~~ CAN SAY THE BEST BIRTHDAY GIFT I HAVE.... :))
BUT of cause cannot take things for granted also need to buck up myself... I know I stillll have alot of things to LEARN!!! Gambate!!! I can do it!!!
Xoxoxoxox
My humble boss gave me 'Samsung Galaxy S2" as a birthday present~!~1 SOO NICE off him... but I totallly LOVE it.... After so many years, this time only I have an Android mobile for good...
Happy also cause got a nice boss and I like to work and learn from him... As you see, I'm so OUT Of the business world... Observing how people talking about business makes me nervous sometimes as I don;t know what to talk about.. A whole new change as I used to attend Fashion Events or Modeling Events only....
Psst ** My dad said, "SOOO NICEEE a your boss give you mobile... I told him He is a Nice boss... and when Im playing games, my dad complain.. LOL...
~*** HAPPPYYYYY HAPPPYYYY***~~~~ CAN SAY THE BEST BIRTHDAY GIFT I HAVE.... :))
BUT of cause cannot take things for granted also need to buck up myself... I know I stillll have alot of things to LEARN!!! Gambate!!! I can do it!!!
Xoxoxoxox
Unnamed
Living without a Man in life, don;t need to cry over heels for it...
Live as how you lived your life...
Family and Friends are the most important...
But...
When you see couples together, such a sad thing as you miss it...
the feelings....
is XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
only 1-2% GOOD MAN are around~!~!! :(
Live as how you lived your life...
Family and Friends are the most important...
But...
When you see couples together, such a sad thing as you miss it...
the feelings....
is XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
only 1-2% GOOD MAN are around~!~!! :(
Selagi Ada Cinta
Telah Ku Lakukan semuanya Kasih
Telah Ku Korbankan segalanya
Namun Ku sendiri x pernah mengerti
Apa yang engkau fikirkan
Apa yang engkau inginkan
Ku tahu kau x pernah setia(kasih)
Ku tahu diriku x bererti
Namun ku sendiri x pernah mengerti
Apa yang engkau fikirkan
Apa yang engkau inginkan
Selagi ada cinta dihatiku
Selagi ada rindu yg membara
Selagi air mata ini mengalir
Kau tetap di hati ku
Cintamu tetap di hati
Selagi ku mampu bertahan
Jangan sampai cinta tiada lagi
Jika mmg cinta ini tiada lagi kasih
Tinggalkan aku sendiri
Tinggallkan cintamu kasih
Selagi ada cinta dihatiku
Selagi ada rindu yg membara
Selagi air mata ini mengalir
Ku terima segalanya
Walau hatiku merana
Telah Ku Korbankan segalanya
Namun Ku sendiri x pernah mengerti
Apa yang engkau fikirkan
Apa yang engkau inginkan
Ku tahu kau x pernah setia(kasih)
Ku tahu diriku x bererti
Namun ku sendiri x pernah mengerti
Apa yang engkau fikirkan
Apa yang engkau inginkan
Selagi ada cinta dihatiku
Selagi ada rindu yg membara
Selagi air mata ini mengalir
Kau tetap di hati ku
Cintamu tetap di hati
Selagi ku mampu bertahan
Jangan sampai cinta tiada lagi
Jika mmg cinta ini tiada lagi kasih
Tinggalkan aku sendiri
Tinggallkan cintamu kasih
Selagi ada cinta dihatiku
Selagi ada rindu yg membara
Selagi air mata ini mengalir
Ku terima segalanya
Walau hatiku merana
Friday, January 20, 2012
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Myself
I like to have a penchant for a colorful underwear.♥
I love things that have lace lace and beautiful designs, patterns on it. When you're wearing a nice business suit or a really pretty dress and underneath you're wearing the naughtiest underwear. It plays a playful sexiness to your personality.
I love PINK , I love fun rainbow colours.♥
I love plushy toys, fluffy teddy bears, meow, bunny any animals..♥
I'm not looking for a Man who looks sexy on the outside.
Rather I'm looking for a Man who is smart and can teach me, groom me, guide me on something.
I like a Man who likes to be a child sometimes cause I like to be a little childish too.
I like a Man who loves to pamper cause I love to get or to be pampered by him and to treat me as his one and only PRINCESS ♥
It's good to have some one lean and play with and on the same wave length as me.
I like a Man who makes effort to go into her underwear drawer and finds out the exact size she wears rather than asking her.
Your women is going to appreciate you so much more when you got her size right.
It's sexy when a Man knows yours body especially if you want to keep a relationship. ♥
I love things that have lace lace and beautiful designs, patterns on it. When you're wearing a nice business suit or a really pretty dress and underneath you're wearing the naughtiest underwear. It plays a playful sexiness to your personality.
I love PINK , I love fun rainbow colours.♥
I love plushy toys, fluffy teddy bears, meow, bunny any animals..♥
I'm not looking for a Man who looks sexy on the outside.
Rather I'm looking for a Man who is smart and can teach me, groom me, guide me on something.
I like a Man who likes to be a child sometimes cause I like to be a little childish too.
I like a Man who loves to pamper cause I love to get or to be pampered by him and to treat me as his one and only PRINCESS ♥
It's good to have some one lean and play with and on the same wave length as me.
I like a Man who makes effort to go into her underwear drawer and finds out the exact size she wears rather than asking her.
Your women is going to appreciate you so much more when you got her size right.
It's sexy when a Man knows yours body especially if you want to keep a relationship. ♥
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Traits Of A Real Man
What You Need To Know
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't.
A real man doesn't gossip. He shelters information and rations his words.
Real men have taken their lumps and learned to defend themselves to succeed.
"A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences".
a real man reads
If you don't agree, go read the column of some guy from Arkansas who thinks owning a pickup truck is what defines a man. You'll see how far you get with his advice.
Trait No. 1: A real man is strong
A real man doesn't cry, doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.
A real man is macho. A real man is tough. A real man doesn't show emotions. A real man is the backbone of his family and doesn't have time to be weak. If spiders scare you, you'll never be a real man.
A real man is focused
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't. A real man doesn't waste time on stupidities that don't bring him any profit. Sure, there are things you can do as a hobby -- I like to shoot ducks -- but it must have a purpose. The purpose of my hobby is to improve my aim, and I don't have to tell you whether or not that's a useful thing in my line of work.
A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).
A real man knows the importance of family
A real man will keep his family strong and pass on his ancestors' history and traditions. A real man knows that his children are God's gift and should be treated as such, even if he disciplines them from time to time.
A real man must also remember his other Family, his organization. In my world, both my family and my Family hold the same importance; I protect them both with all my might. If you have a Family, don't forget where your loyalties lie and who has your back when you need it.
A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man doesn't gossip
A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.
A real man's word is his bond
When a real man makes a promise, he keeps it. If he can't keep a promise, he doesn't give his word. A real man would rather die than break his word. A real man knows that his words are as powerful as his actions, and that they must be taken at face value. That is why he rations them (see above).
A real man strives to be a role model
A real man respects himself and others at all times, unless, of course, he has been disrespected. A real man sets an example for his disciples, and especially for his children. I never bring my work home, so my children only know me as their father and not as a waste management executive. You should do the same; a real man sets the tone for his children and keeps them from discovering that he has weaknesses.
A real man makes his own fortune
A real man doesn't settle for handouts or charity when it comes to his personal fortune.
A real man isn't satisfied with papa's money. He spits on Lady Luck and decides his own destiny.
A real man who inherits goods from his forefathers takes his inheritance and turns it into 10 times what it was.
A real man doesn't look like a woman
A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man has at least three suits (with a mandatory pinstriped one) that cost more than a roomful of escorts. A real man wears a suit at least three times a week. Any man who doesn't know how to tie a tie should hand in his testicoli immediately.
A real man keeps his house in order
Have you ever been inside the boss’ house? There ain’t no pizza boxes sitting around, there ain’t no undershirts on the floor, and there sure as hell ain’t no unpaid bills being used as beer coasters. No ruler can rule over a territory if he isn’t already the master of his own home.
This means you lazy pinheads out there need to stop using machismo as an excuse to live like a bottom-feeder; keep your sty spotless, keep your documents in order and -- listen up on this one -- clean your freaking suits.
A real man keeps it simple.
A real man can defend himself
You know what’s missing in the world today? Leaders who have had to fight their way to the top. No joking, look at the head of any business that’s circling the toilet bowl, and I’ll show you a boss whose parents' power and money kept him from ever learning things the hard way.
Every successful capo has been on the wrong end of a beatdown -- be it with words or be it with a set of A. Testonis. But those future capos got up again and again, until they knew how to stand their ground -- and that, my students, is when you can start to climb the ladder.
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't.
A real man doesn't gossip. He shelters information and rations his words.
Real men have taken their lumps and learned to defend themselves to succeed.
"A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences".
a real man reads
If you don't agree, go read the column of some guy from Arkansas who thinks owning a pickup truck is what defines a man. You'll see how far you get with his advice.
Trait No. 1: A real man is strong
A real man doesn't cry, doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.
A real man is macho. A real man is tough. A real man doesn't show emotions. A real man is the backbone of his family and doesn't have time to be weak. If spiders scare you, you'll never be a real man.
A real man is focused
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't. A real man doesn't waste time on stupidities that don't bring him any profit. Sure, there are things you can do as a hobby -- I like to shoot ducks -- but it must have a purpose. The purpose of my hobby is to improve my aim, and I don't have to tell you whether or not that's a useful thing in my line of work.
A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).
A real man knows the importance of family
A real man will keep his family strong and pass on his ancestors' history and traditions. A real man knows that his children are God's gift and should be treated as such, even if he disciplines them from time to time.
A real man must also remember his other Family, his organization. In my world, both my family and my Family hold the same importance; I protect them both with all my might. If you have a Family, don't forget where your loyalties lie and who has your back when you need it.
A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man doesn't gossip
A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.
A real man's word is his bond
When a real man makes a promise, he keeps it. If he can't keep a promise, he doesn't give his word. A real man would rather die than break his word. A real man knows that his words are as powerful as his actions, and that they must be taken at face value. That is why he rations them (see above).
A real man strives to be a role model
A real man respects himself and others at all times, unless, of course, he has been disrespected. A real man sets an example for his disciples, and especially for his children. I never bring my work home, so my children only know me as their father and not as a waste management executive. You should do the same; a real man sets the tone for his children and keeps them from discovering that he has weaknesses.
A real man makes his own fortune
A real man doesn't settle for handouts or charity when it comes to his personal fortune.
A real man isn't satisfied with papa's money. He spits on Lady Luck and decides his own destiny.
A real man who inherits goods from his forefathers takes his inheritance and turns it into 10 times what it was.
A real man doesn't look like a woman
A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man has at least three suits (with a mandatory pinstriped one) that cost more than a roomful of escorts. A real man wears a suit at least three times a week. Any man who doesn't know how to tie a tie should hand in his testicoli immediately.
A real man keeps his house in order
Have you ever been inside the boss’ house? There ain’t no pizza boxes sitting around, there ain’t no undershirts on the floor, and there sure as hell ain’t no unpaid bills being used as beer coasters. No ruler can rule over a territory if he isn’t already the master of his own home.
This means you lazy pinheads out there need to stop using machismo as an excuse to live like a bottom-feeder; keep your sty spotless, keep your documents in order and -- listen up on this one -- clean your freaking suits.
A real man keeps it simple.
A real man can defend himself
You know what’s missing in the world today? Leaders who have had to fight their way to the top. No joking, look at the head of any business that’s circling the toilet bowl, and I’ll show you a boss whose parents' power and money kept him from ever learning things the hard way.
Every successful capo has been on the wrong end of a beatdown -- be it with words or be it with a set of A. Testonis. But those future capos got up again and again, until they knew how to stand their ground -- and that, my students, is when you can start to climb the ladder.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Tips for the Christian wife
The “Perfect Wife” (Having all the qualities necessary to assure my husband that I’m the perfect wife for him!)
Ø Ourselves your servants for Jesus’ sake 2 Cor 4:5
Ø Attitude of thinking about him instead of being preoccupied with myself.
Ø Looking for ways all the time to help him and please him. (good and not evil all the days of her life – Pro 31)
Ø My husband is king of my household and king of my marriage.
Ø Next to the Lord, he is the one I want to please the most.
Ø It is my joy and privilege to treat my husband as my Lord. He is my top priority right after Christ.
Ø Unfading loveliness of a calm and gentle spirit, a thing very precious in the eyes of God. 1 Pet 3:4
Ø 1 Cor 13: Patient and kind? Never envious or jealous? Not possessive? Not conceited? Never rude? Never indiscreet? Not insistent on its own right? Not self-seeking? Never touchy, fretful, or resentful? Pays no attention to a wrong suffered? Count up past wrongs? Not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but in the truth? Believe the best of him? Never fail?
Ø Feel beautiful!
Ø Accept my husband the way he is! Don’t cut him down in word or thought.
Ø Compliment him!
Ø The power of God within me can enable me to change.
Ø Turn my attitude over to the Lord and then be, say, and do what I know is right.
Ø As I please my husband, I am obeying and pleasing the Lord. Let it be a love offering to both.
Ø The Lord will not make me do anything. He will not change me without my cooperation.
Ø With God’s strength operating within me, I am going to be different! Now DO it!
Ø Feelings always follow correct action.
Ø Submission to God and my husband is supernatural, the result of my own choice of action plus God’s power. Psalm 40:8 – I delight to do thy will, O my God.
Ø Bathed and pretty nightgowns for bedtime.
Ø Look pretty. Keep smiling. Don’t complain. Receive my husband with open arms.
Ø Give extra attention to the beauty and comfort of our bedroom. Keep the house picked up before husband comes home so there is an appearance of order even if I have not had time to clean. Freshen up before husband comes home. Wear clothes I know he likes. Serve food he likes. Take an afternoon nap so I can stay up late with him since he prefers to stay up late. Learn to like his interests (baseball, football, etc.). I want to enjoy his world with him.
Ø A wise wife will not argue. I will keep him peaceful and satisfied and happy by gracefully conceding to his wishes or deferring to his opinions. When an issue is an important one, it can be discussed and decided on its merits.
Ø Listen more and talk less.
Ø Adapt myself to my husband.
Ø To stay beautiful, do not let myself go. Don’t add 10 pounds a year! Physical fitness program with husband.
Ø Don’t neglect inner beauty. Being miserable on the inside will show through wrinkles and my countenance. It will show in my actions by pushing others away. It will be revealed in my voice, which would be loud and strident or whining and complaining or ridiculing in tone.
Ø A woman who is loved and knows she is loved, who loves the Lord and loves her husband, will be lovely.
Ø I will have attitudes that will rise up within me that are not right. Back up and start again. Turn it over to the Lord. I don’t have to act this way as a Christian. I don’t have to let my old nature be in control. I need not choose to be childish and peeved about some insignificant thing that my ego felt as a slight.
Ø I am free to be obedient to God and pleasing to my husband. I do not have to behave in any other way.
Ø Husband must come first and children after that.
Ø Children will observe actions and absorb attitudes.
The more you love and submit to your husband, the more he will love you, just as Christ loved the church.
Ø Ourselves your servants for Jesus’ sake 2 Cor 4:5
Ø Attitude of thinking about him instead of being preoccupied with myself.
Ø Looking for ways all the time to help him and please him. (good and not evil all the days of her life – Pro 31)
Ø My husband is king of my household and king of my marriage.
Ø Next to the Lord, he is the one I want to please the most.
Ø It is my joy and privilege to treat my husband as my Lord. He is my top priority right after Christ.
Ø Unfading loveliness of a calm and gentle spirit, a thing very precious in the eyes of God. 1 Pet 3:4
Ø 1 Cor 13: Patient and kind? Never envious or jealous? Not possessive? Not conceited? Never rude? Never indiscreet? Not insistent on its own right? Not self-seeking? Never touchy, fretful, or resentful? Pays no attention to a wrong suffered? Count up past wrongs? Not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but in the truth? Believe the best of him? Never fail?
Ø Feel beautiful!
Ø Accept my husband the way he is! Don’t cut him down in word or thought.
Ø Compliment him!
Ø The power of God within me can enable me to change.
Ø Turn my attitude over to the Lord and then be, say, and do what I know is right.
Ø As I please my husband, I am obeying and pleasing the Lord. Let it be a love offering to both.
Ø The Lord will not make me do anything. He will not change me without my cooperation.
Ø With God’s strength operating within me, I am going to be different! Now DO it!
Ø Feelings always follow correct action.
Ø Submission to God and my husband is supernatural, the result of my own choice of action plus God’s power. Psalm 40:8 – I delight to do thy will, O my God.
Ø Bathed and pretty nightgowns for bedtime.
Ø Look pretty. Keep smiling. Don’t complain. Receive my husband with open arms.
Ø Give extra attention to the beauty and comfort of our bedroom. Keep the house picked up before husband comes home so there is an appearance of order even if I have not had time to clean. Freshen up before husband comes home. Wear clothes I know he likes. Serve food he likes. Take an afternoon nap so I can stay up late with him since he prefers to stay up late. Learn to like his interests (baseball, football, etc.). I want to enjoy his world with him.
Ø A wise wife will not argue. I will keep him peaceful and satisfied and happy by gracefully conceding to his wishes or deferring to his opinions. When an issue is an important one, it can be discussed and decided on its merits.
Ø Listen more and talk less.
Ø Adapt myself to my husband.
Ø To stay beautiful, do not let myself go. Don’t add 10 pounds a year! Physical fitness program with husband.
Ø Don’t neglect inner beauty. Being miserable on the inside will show through wrinkles and my countenance. It will show in my actions by pushing others away. It will be revealed in my voice, which would be loud and strident or whining and complaining or ridiculing in tone.
Ø A woman who is loved and knows she is loved, who loves the Lord and loves her husband, will be lovely.
Ø I will have attitudes that will rise up within me that are not right. Back up and start again. Turn it over to the Lord. I don’t have to act this way as a Christian. I don’t have to let my old nature be in control. I need not choose to be childish and peeved about some insignificant thing that my ego felt as a slight.
Ø I am free to be obedient to God and pleasing to my husband. I do not have to behave in any other way.
Ø Husband must come first and children after that.
Ø Children will observe actions and absorb attitudes.
The more you love and submit to your husband, the more he will love you, just as Christ loved the church.
A Little Prayer
Psalm 23
A psalm of David.
1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
A psalm of David.
1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
14 Dating Mistakes to Avoid
You Wear Too Much Makeup
Doing so implies to a man that you may lack self-confidence. Looking good isn’t all about trying to achieve perfection. It isn’t about caking your face with so much makeup that you look like someone else. No man wants to wake up in the morning to find your makeup all over the sheets. Think: More confidence, less makeup.
You Check Your Phone Constantly
This is disrespectful to the man you’re on a date with. When your man is around, try to keep your smart phone addiction hidden. It makes you seem obsessive-compulsive when you’re always peeking down at your phone or you leave it out on the table. It’s annoying, and it makes him feel less important. Just throw it in your bag and enjoy yourself.
You Talk Nonstop About Work
There are more interesting things in life to discuss than how much it sucks to fill out reports every day. If all you can talk about is your job, that means you lead a very boring life and you won’t be much fun to hang around with.
You Don't Support Guy Time
Doing this will instantly make you appear insecure and controlling. Whoa there, missy. You’re messing with one of the sacred man rituals now. It’s a necessity, not an option. Instead of ranting and raving about our guys’ night, put that energy to positive use and go out with your girls.
You Drink a Lot of Champagne
This could mean you’re too materialistic; too focused on status. The last thing men want is to be involved in a relationship where money and status is more important than anything else. What if we can’t make a buck? What if we don’t have the biggest house in our neighborhood? Will you want the guy in the huge house with a pool down the street? Your choice of beverage is painting this picture of our future life together.
You're Clumsy or Awkward
This says that our sexual compatibility is in question. When we’re up, you’re down. We try to connect because we’re attracted to each other, but something just seems off. If we’re not connecting on the dance floor, how are we going to connect in the bedroom? To increase flexibility and become more in touch with your body consider a dance or yoga class.
You Want Another Tattoo
This could tell him you’re not done living your youth. Like it or not, your tattoo says more than you intended. He’ll wonder if it was just a one-time things or if your wild side could return just as he’s starting to like you?
You're All About You (and Your Pet!)
If you’re guilty of this, it may tell a guy who wants to get serious that your timetable for having kids is at odds with his. This may seem innocent, but it can be overkill. How are we supposed to compete with that playful, furry, and loyal friend who probably came before us? We’re not sure we’re ready to take on the responsibility for this pet, especially because we know what’s on your mind next — a baby
You Don't Eat Leftovers
This means you could be financially irresponsible. The truth is, your staunch refusal to eat leftovers goes far beyond being a little weird. Let’s put it this way… you’re throwing out food. So if you’re throwing out a necessary component for survival — where else are you choosing an “ideal” over a “this will do”?
Your Party Photos Are All Over the Web
If he sees your photos all over nightclub and party sites, he’ll think you’re a party girl and will be unable to settle down. It’s cool that you go to clubs. But there’s a difference between just going to clubs and being a club regular. It’s a recipe for disaster if you’re trying to hold down a relationship.
You're Short on Bridesmaids
This means you might be too needy, and we won’t be able to be independent of each other. First of all, having two sisters and one friend doesn’t count. When men see a lack of close friends in your life it is cause for concern. Will you get pissed off every time we want to hang out with our friends? Will you be latching onto us every time we’re out with each other?
You Get Dressed Up for Sporting Events
This could tell a man that you’re unable to adapt to different situations. Beware of how you dress at sporting events because if you send the wrong message your man may go running. If you’re more focused on looking “cute”, when everyone around you is dressed comfortably, it says you can’t relax. We have visions of waking up in the morning to grab breakfast with you pulling on the back of our sweats as we’re walking out the door. saying, “You’re not wearing that, are you?” Ditch the fancy outfit and just relax.
You Complain Constantly
No man likes constant negativity, period. Negative attitudes can be the death of a relationship, especially when the other half naturally has a positive attitude. Everyone could, if they wanted to, complain about their day. There are good things and bad things that happen to all of us. When we talk to you after a hard day’s work, we don’t want to spend all our time consoling you and making you feel better. What about our day?
You Have Daddy Issues
Men assume that women who don’t call their fathers either have bad dads, no dads, or bad relationships with their dads. None of those perceptions work in your favor. Never pay so much attention to a guy that you forget about your family.
Weigh In!
Tell me what you think about these “mistakes”. Do you agree or disagree?
Doing so implies to a man that you may lack self-confidence. Looking good isn’t all about trying to achieve perfection. It isn’t about caking your face with so much makeup that you look like someone else. No man wants to wake up in the morning to find your makeup all over the sheets. Think: More confidence, less makeup.
You Check Your Phone Constantly
This is disrespectful to the man you’re on a date with. When your man is around, try to keep your smart phone addiction hidden. It makes you seem obsessive-compulsive when you’re always peeking down at your phone or you leave it out on the table. It’s annoying, and it makes him feel less important. Just throw it in your bag and enjoy yourself.
You Talk Nonstop About Work
There are more interesting things in life to discuss than how much it sucks to fill out reports every day. If all you can talk about is your job, that means you lead a very boring life and you won’t be much fun to hang around with.
You Don't Support Guy Time
Doing this will instantly make you appear insecure and controlling. Whoa there, missy. You’re messing with one of the sacred man rituals now. It’s a necessity, not an option. Instead of ranting and raving about our guys’ night, put that energy to positive use and go out with your girls.
You Drink a Lot of Champagne
This could mean you’re too materialistic; too focused on status. The last thing men want is to be involved in a relationship where money and status is more important than anything else. What if we can’t make a buck? What if we don’t have the biggest house in our neighborhood? Will you want the guy in the huge house with a pool down the street? Your choice of beverage is painting this picture of our future life together.
You're Clumsy or Awkward
This says that our sexual compatibility is in question. When we’re up, you’re down. We try to connect because we’re attracted to each other, but something just seems off. If we’re not connecting on the dance floor, how are we going to connect in the bedroom? To increase flexibility and become more in touch with your body consider a dance or yoga class.
You Want Another Tattoo
This could tell him you’re not done living your youth. Like it or not, your tattoo says more than you intended. He’ll wonder if it was just a one-time things or if your wild side could return just as he’s starting to like you?
You're All About You (and Your Pet!)
If you’re guilty of this, it may tell a guy who wants to get serious that your timetable for having kids is at odds with his. This may seem innocent, but it can be overkill. How are we supposed to compete with that playful, furry, and loyal friend who probably came before us? We’re not sure we’re ready to take on the responsibility for this pet, especially because we know what’s on your mind next — a baby
You Don't Eat Leftovers
This means you could be financially irresponsible. The truth is, your staunch refusal to eat leftovers goes far beyond being a little weird. Let’s put it this way… you’re throwing out food. So if you’re throwing out a necessary component for survival — where else are you choosing an “ideal” over a “this will do”?
Your Party Photos Are All Over the Web
If he sees your photos all over nightclub and party sites, he’ll think you’re a party girl and will be unable to settle down. It’s cool that you go to clubs. But there’s a difference between just going to clubs and being a club regular. It’s a recipe for disaster if you’re trying to hold down a relationship.
You're Short on Bridesmaids
This means you might be too needy, and we won’t be able to be independent of each other. First of all, having two sisters and one friend doesn’t count. When men see a lack of close friends in your life it is cause for concern. Will you get pissed off every time we want to hang out with our friends? Will you be latching onto us every time we’re out with each other?
You Get Dressed Up for Sporting Events
This could tell a man that you’re unable to adapt to different situations. Beware of how you dress at sporting events because if you send the wrong message your man may go running. If you’re more focused on looking “cute”, when everyone around you is dressed comfortably, it says you can’t relax. We have visions of waking up in the morning to grab breakfast with you pulling on the back of our sweats as we’re walking out the door. saying, “You’re not wearing that, are you?” Ditch the fancy outfit and just relax.
You Complain Constantly
No man likes constant negativity, period. Negative attitudes can be the death of a relationship, especially when the other half naturally has a positive attitude. Everyone could, if they wanted to, complain about their day. There are good things and bad things that happen to all of us. When we talk to you after a hard day’s work, we don’t want to spend all our time consoling you and making you feel better. What about our day?
You Have Daddy Issues
Men assume that women who don’t call their fathers either have bad dads, no dads, or bad relationships with their dads. None of those perceptions work in your favor. Never pay so much attention to a guy that you forget about your family.
Weigh In!
Tell me what you think about these “mistakes”. Do you agree or disagree?
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