Friday, January 20, 2012
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Myself
I like to have a penchant for a colorful underwear.♥
I love things that have lace lace and beautiful designs, patterns on it. When you're wearing a nice business suit or a really pretty dress and underneath you're wearing the naughtiest underwear. It plays a playful sexiness to your personality.
I love PINK , I love fun rainbow colours.♥
I love plushy toys, fluffy teddy bears, meow, bunny any animals..♥
I'm not looking for a Man who looks sexy on the outside.
Rather I'm looking for a Man who is smart and can teach me, groom me, guide me on something.
I like a Man who likes to be a child sometimes cause I like to be a little childish too.
I like a Man who loves to pamper cause I love to get or to be pampered by him and to treat me as his one and only PRINCESS ♥
It's good to have some one lean and play with and on the same wave length as me.
I like a Man who makes effort to go into her underwear drawer and finds out the exact size she wears rather than asking her.
Your women is going to appreciate you so much more when you got her size right.
It's sexy when a Man knows yours body especially if you want to keep a relationship. ♥
I love things that have lace lace and beautiful designs, patterns on it. When you're wearing a nice business suit or a really pretty dress and underneath you're wearing the naughtiest underwear. It plays a playful sexiness to your personality.
I love PINK , I love fun rainbow colours.♥
I love plushy toys, fluffy teddy bears, meow, bunny any animals..♥
I'm not looking for a Man who looks sexy on the outside.
Rather I'm looking for a Man who is smart and can teach me, groom me, guide me on something.
I like a Man who likes to be a child sometimes cause I like to be a little childish too.
I like a Man who loves to pamper cause I love to get or to be pampered by him and to treat me as his one and only PRINCESS ♥
It's good to have some one lean and play with and on the same wave length as me.
I like a Man who makes effort to go into her underwear drawer and finds out the exact size she wears rather than asking her.
Your women is going to appreciate you so much more when you got her size right.
It's sexy when a Man knows yours body especially if you want to keep a relationship. ♥
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Traits Of A Real Man
What You Need To Know
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't.
A real man doesn't gossip. He shelters information and rations his words.
Real men have taken their lumps and learned to defend themselves to succeed.
"A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences".
a real man reads
If you don't agree, go read the column of some guy from Arkansas who thinks owning a pickup truck is what defines a man. You'll see how far you get with his advice.
Trait No. 1: A real man is strong
A real man doesn't cry, doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.
A real man is macho. A real man is tough. A real man doesn't show emotions. A real man is the backbone of his family and doesn't have time to be weak. If spiders scare you, you'll never be a real man.
A real man is focused
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't. A real man doesn't waste time on stupidities that don't bring him any profit. Sure, there are things you can do as a hobby -- I like to shoot ducks -- but it must have a purpose. The purpose of my hobby is to improve my aim, and I don't have to tell you whether or not that's a useful thing in my line of work.
A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).
A real man knows the importance of family
A real man will keep his family strong and pass on his ancestors' history and traditions. A real man knows that his children are God's gift and should be treated as such, even if he disciplines them from time to time.
A real man must also remember his other Family, his organization. In my world, both my family and my Family hold the same importance; I protect them both with all my might. If you have a Family, don't forget where your loyalties lie and who has your back when you need it.
A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man doesn't gossip
A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.
A real man's word is his bond
When a real man makes a promise, he keeps it. If he can't keep a promise, he doesn't give his word. A real man would rather die than break his word. A real man knows that his words are as powerful as his actions, and that they must be taken at face value. That is why he rations them (see above).
A real man strives to be a role model
A real man respects himself and others at all times, unless, of course, he has been disrespected. A real man sets an example for his disciples, and especially for his children. I never bring my work home, so my children only know me as their father and not as a waste management executive. You should do the same; a real man sets the tone for his children and keeps them from discovering that he has weaknesses.
A real man makes his own fortune
A real man doesn't settle for handouts or charity when it comes to his personal fortune.
A real man isn't satisfied with papa's money. He spits on Lady Luck and decides his own destiny.
A real man who inherits goods from his forefathers takes his inheritance and turns it into 10 times what it was.
A real man doesn't look like a woman
A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man has at least three suits (with a mandatory pinstriped one) that cost more than a roomful of escorts. A real man wears a suit at least three times a week. Any man who doesn't know how to tie a tie should hand in his testicoli immediately.
A real man keeps his house in order
Have you ever been inside the boss’ house? There ain’t no pizza boxes sitting around, there ain’t no undershirts on the floor, and there sure as hell ain’t no unpaid bills being used as beer coasters. No ruler can rule over a territory if he isn’t already the master of his own home.
This means you lazy pinheads out there need to stop using machismo as an excuse to live like a bottom-feeder; keep your sty spotless, keep your documents in order and -- listen up on this one -- clean your freaking suits.
A real man keeps it simple.
A real man can defend himself
You know what’s missing in the world today? Leaders who have had to fight their way to the top. No joking, look at the head of any business that’s circling the toilet bowl, and I’ll show you a boss whose parents' power and money kept him from ever learning things the hard way.
Every successful capo has been on the wrong end of a beatdown -- be it with words or be it with a set of A. Testonis. But those future capos got up again and again, until they knew how to stand their ground -- and that, my students, is when you can start to climb the ladder.
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't.
A real man doesn't gossip. He shelters information and rations his words.
Real men have taken their lumps and learned to defend themselves to succeed.
"A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences".
a real man reads
If you don't agree, go read the column of some guy from Arkansas who thinks owning a pickup truck is what defines a man. You'll see how far you get with his advice.
Trait No. 1: A real man is strong
A real man doesn't cry, doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.
A real man is macho. A real man is tough. A real man doesn't show emotions. A real man is the backbone of his family and doesn't have time to be weak. If spiders scare you, you'll never be a real man.
A real man is focused
A real man knows the difference between what's important and what isn't. A real man doesn't waste time on stupidities that don't bring him any profit. Sure, there are things you can do as a hobby -- I like to shoot ducks -- but it must have a purpose. The purpose of my hobby is to improve my aim, and I don't have to tell you whether or not that's a useful thing in my line of work.
A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).
A real man knows the importance of family
A real man will keep his family strong and pass on his ancestors' history and traditions. A real man knows that his children are God's gift and should be treated as such, even if he disciplines them from time to time.
A real man must also remember his other Family, his organization. In my world, both my family and my Family hold the same importance; I protect them both with all my might. If you have a Family, don't forget where your loyalties lie and who has your back when you need it.
A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man doesn't gossip
A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.
A real man's word is his bond
When a real man makes a promise, he keeps it. If he can't keep a promise, he doesn't give his word. A real man would rather die than break his word. A real man knows that his words are as powerful as his actions, and that they must be taken at face value. That is why he rations them (see above).
A real man strives to be a role model
A real man respects himself and others at all times, unless, of course, he has been disrespected. A real man sets an example for his disciples, and especially for his children. I never bring my work home, so my children only know me as their father and not as a waste management executive. You should do the same; a real man sets the tone for his children and keeps them from discovering that he has weaknesses.
A real man makes his own fortune
A real man doesn't settle for handouts or charity when it comes to his personal fortune.
A real man isn't satisfied with papa's money. He spits on Lady Luck and decides his own destiny.
A real man who inherits goods from his forefathers takes his inheritance and turns it into 10 times what it was.
A real man doesn't look like a woman
A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
A real man has at least three suits (with a mandatory pinstriped one) that cost more than a roomful of escorts. A real man wears a suit at least three times a week. Any man who doesn't know how to tie a tie should hand in his testicoli immediately.
A real man keeps his house in order
Have you ever been inside the boss’ house? There ain’t no pizza boxes sitting around, there ain’t no undershirts on the floor, and there sure as hell ain’t no unpaid bills being used as beer coasters. No ruler can rule over a territory if he isn’t already the master of his own home.
This means you lazy pinheads out there need to stop using machismo as an excuse to live like a bottom-feeder; keep your sty spotless, keep your documents in order and -- listen up on this one -- clean your freaking suits.
A real man keeps it simple.
A real man can defend himself
You know what’s missing in the world today? Leaders who have had to fight their way to the top. No joking, look at the head of any business that’s circling the toilet bowl, and I’ll show you a boss whose parents' power and money kept him from ever learning things the hard way.
Every successful capo has been on the wrong end of a beatdown -- be it with words or be it with a set of A. Testonis. But those future capos got up again and again, until they knew how to stand their ground -- and that, my students, is when you can start to climb the ladder.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Tips for the Christian wife
The “Perfect Wife” (Having all the qualities necessary to assure my husband that I’m the perfect wife for him!)
Ø Ourselves your servants for Jesus’ sake 2 Cor 4:5
Ø Attitude of thinking about him instead of being preoccupied with myself.
Ø Looking for ways all the time to help him and please him. (good and not evil all the days of her life – Pro 31)
Ø My husband is king of my household and king of my marriage.
Ø Next to the Lord, he is the one I want to please the most.
Ø It is my joy and privilege to treat my husband as my Lord. He is my top priority right after Christ.
Ø Unfading loveliness of a calm and gentle spirit, a thing very precious in the eyes of God. 1 Pet 3:4
Ø 1 Cor 13: Patient and kind? Never envious or jealous? Not possessive? Not conceited? Never rude? Never indiscreet? Not insistent on its own right? Not self-seeking? Never touchy, fretful, or resentful? Pays no attention to a wrong suffered? Count up past wrongs? Not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but in the truth? Believe the best of him? Never fail?
Ø Feel beautiful!
Ø Accept my husband the way he is! Don’t cut him down in word or thought.
Ø Compliment him!
Ø The power of God within me can enable me to change.
Ø Turn my attitude over to the Lord and then be, say, and do what I know is right.
Ø As I please my husband, I am obeying and pleasing the Lord. Let it be a love offering to both.
Ø The Lord will not make me do anything. He will not change me without my cooperation.
Ø With God’s strength operating within me, I am going to be different! Now DO it!
Ø Feelings always follow correct action.
Ø Submission to God and my husband is supernatural, the result of my own choice of action plus God’s power. Psalm 40:8 – I delight to do thy will, O my God.
Ø Bathed and pretty nightgowns for bedtime.
Ø Look pretty. Keep smiling. Don’t complain. Receive my husband with open arms.
Ø Give extra attention to the beauty and comfort of our bedroom. Keep the house picked up before husband comes home so there is an appearance of order even if I have not had time to clean. Freshen up before husband comes home. Wear clothes I know he likes. Serve food he likes. Take an afternoon nap so I can stay up late with him since he prefers to stay up late. Learn to like his interests (baseball, football, etc.). I want to enjoy his world with him.
Ø A wise wife will not argue. I will keep him peaceful and satisfied and happy by gracefully conceding to his wishes or deferring to his opinions. When an issue is an important one, it can be discussed and decided on its merits.
Ø Listen more and talk less.
Ø Adapt myself to my husband.
Ø To stay beautiful, do not let myself go. Don’t add 10 pounds a year! Physical fitness program with husband.
Ø Don’t neglect inner beauty. Being miserable on the inside will show through wrinkles and my countenance. It will show in my actions by pushing others away. It will be revealed in my voice, which would be loud and strident or whining and complaining or ridiculing in tone.
Ø A woman who is loved and knows she is loved, who loves the Lord and loves her husband, will be lovely.
Ø I will have attitudes that will rise up within me that are not right. Back up and start again. Turn it over to the Lord. I don’t have to act this way as a Christian. I don’t have to let my old nature be in control. I need not choose to be childish and peeved about some insignificant thing that my ego felt as a slight.
Ø I am free to be obedient to God and pleasing to my husband. I do not have to behave in any other way.
Ø Husband must come first and children after that.
Ø Children will observe actions and absorb attitudes.
The more you love and submit to your husband, the more he will love you, just as Christ loved the church.
Ø Ourselves your servants for Jesus’ sake 2 Cor 4:5
Ø Attitude of thinking about him instead of being preoccupied with myself.
Ø Looking for ways all the time to help him and please him. (good and not evil all the days of her life – Pro 31)
Ø My husband is king of my household and king of my marriage.
Ø Next to the Lord, he is the one I want to please the most.
Ø It is my joy and privilege to treat my husband as my Lord. He is my top priority right after Christ.
Ø Unfading loveliness of a calm and gentle spirit, a thing very precious in the eyes of God. 1 Pet 3:4
Ø 1 Cor 13: Patient and kind? Never envious or jealous? Not possessive? Not conceited? Never rude? Never indiscreet? Not insistent on its own right? Not self-seeking? Never touchy, fretful, or resentful? Pays no attention to a wrong suffered? Count up past wrongs? Not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but in the truth? Believe the best of him? Never fail?
Ø Feel beautiful!
Ø Accept my husband the way he is! Don’t cut him down in word or thought.
Ø Compliment him!
Ø The power of God within me can enable me to change.
Ø Turn my attitude over to the Lord and then be, say, and do what I know is right.
Ø As I please my husband, I am obeying and pleasing the Lord. Let it be a love offering to both.
Ø The Lord will not make me do anything. He will not change me without my cooperation.
Ø With God’s strength operating within me, I am going to be different! Now DO it!
Ø Feelings always follow correct action.
Ø Submission to God and my husband is supernatural, the result of my own choice of action plus God’s power. Psalm 40:8 – I delight to do thy will, O my God.
Ø Bathed and pretty nightgowns for bedtime.
Ø Look pretty. Keep smiling. Don’t complain. Receive my husband with open arms.
Ø Give extra attention to the beauty and comfort of our bedroom. Keep the house picked up before husband comes home so there is an appearance of order even if I have not had time to clean. Freshen up before husband comes home. Wear clothes I know he likes. Serve food he likes. Take an afternoon nap so I can stay up late with him since he prefers to stay up late. Learn to like his interests (baseball, football, etc.). I want to enjoy his world with him.
Ø A wise wife will not argue. I will keep him peaceful and satisfied and happy by gracefully conceding to his wishes or deferring to his opinions. When an issue is an important one, it can be discussed and decided on its merits.
Ø Listen more and talk less.
Ø Adapt myself to my husband.
Ø To stay beautiful, do not let myself go. Don’t add 10 pounds a year! Physical fitness program with husband.
Ø Don’t neglect inner beauty. Being miserable on the inside will show through wrinkles and my countenance. It will show in my actions by pushing others away. It will be revealed in my voice, which would be loud and strident or whining and complaining or ridiculing in tone.
Ø A woman who is loved and knows she is loved, who loves the Lord and loves her husband, will be lovely.
Ø I will have attitudes that will rise up within me that are not right. Back up and start again. Turn it over to the Lord. I don’t have to act this way as a Christian. I don’t have to let my old nature be in control. I need not choose to be childish and peeved about some insignificant thing that my ego felt as a slight.
Ø I am free to be obedient to God and pleasing to my husband. I do not have to behave in any other way.
Ø Husband must come first and children after that.
Ø Children will observe actions and absorb attitudes.
The more you love and submit to your husband, the more he will love you, just as Christ loved the church.
A Little Prayer
Psalm 23
A psalm of David.
1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
A psalm of David.
1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
14 Dating Mistakes to Avoid
You Wear Too Much Makeup
Doing so implies to a man that you may lack self-confidence. Looking good isn’t all about trying to achieve perfection. It isn’t about caking your face with so much makeup that you look like someone else. No man wants to wake up in the morning to find your makeup all over the sheets. Think: More confidence, less makeup.
You Check Your Phone Constantly
This is disrespectful to the man you’re on a date with. When your man is around, try to keep your smart phone addiction hidden. It makes you seem obsessive-compulsive when you’re always peeking down at your phone or you leave it out on the table. It’s annoying, and it makes him feel less important. Just throw it in your bag and enjoy yourself.
You Talk Nonstop About Work
There are more interesting things in life to discuss than how much it sucks to fill out reports every day. If all you can talk about is your job, that means you lead a very boring life and you won’t be much fun to hang around with.
You Don't Support Guy Time
Doing this will instantly make you appear insecure and controlling. Whoa there, missy. You’re messing with one of the sacred man rituals now. It’s a necessity, not an option. Instead of ranting and raving about our guys’ night, put that energy to positive use and go out with your girls.
You Drink a Lot of Champagne
This could mean you’re too materialistic; too focused on status. The last thing men want is to be involved in a relationship where money and status is more important than anything else. What if we can’t make a buck? What if we don’t have the biggest house in our neighborhood? Will you want the guy in the huge house with a pool down the street? Your choice of beverage is painting this picture of our future life together.
You're Clumsy or Awkward
This says that our sexual compatibility is in question. When we’re up, you’re down. We try to connect because we’re attracted to each other, but something just seems off. If we’re not connecting on the dance floor, how are we going to connect in the bedroom? To increase flexibility and become more in touch with your body consider a dance or yoga class.
You Want Another Tattoo
This could tell him you’re not done living your youth. Like it or not, your tattoo says more than you intended. He’ll wonder if it was just a one-time things or if your wild side could return just as he’s starting to like you?
You're All About You (and Your Pet!)
If you’re guilty of this, it may tell a guy who wants to get serious that your timetable for having kids is at odds with his. This may seem innocent, but it can be overkill. How are we supposed to compete with that playful, furry, and loyal friend who probably came before us? We’re not sure we’re ready to take on the responsibility for this pet, especially because we know what’s on your mind next — a baby
You Don't Eat Leftovers
This means you could be financially irresponsible. The truth is, your staunch refusal to eat leftovers goes far beyond being a little weird. Let’s put it this way… you’re throwing out food. So if you’re throwing out a necessary component for survival — where else are you choosing an “ideal” over a “this will do”?
Your Party Photos Are All Over the Web
If he sees your photos all over nightclub and party sites, he’ll think you’re a party girl and will be unable to settle down. It’s cool that you go to clubs. But there’s a difference between just going to clubs and being a club regular. It’s a recipe for disaster if you’re trying to hold down a relationship.
You're Short on Bridesmaids
This means you might be too needy, and we won’t be able to be independent of each other. First of all, having two sisters and one friend doesn’t count. When men see a lack of close friends in your life it is cause for concern. Will you get pissed off every time we want to hang out with our friends? Will you be latching onto us every time we’re out with each other?
You Get Dressed Up for Sporting Events
This could tell a man that you’re unable to adapt to different situations. Beware of how you dress at sporting events because if you send the wrong message your man may go running. If you’re more focused on looking “cute”, when everyone around you is dressed comfortably, it says you can’t relax. We have visions of waking up in the morning to grab breakfast with you pulling on the back of our sweats as we’re walking out the door. saying, “You’re not wearing that, are you?” Ditch the fancy outfit and just relax.
You Complain Constantly
No man likes constant negativity, period. Negative attitudes can be the death of a relationship, especially when the other half naturally has a positive attitude. Everyone could, if they wanted to, complain about their day. There are good things and bad things that happen to all of us. When we talk to you after a hard day’s work, we don’t want to spend all our time consoling you and making you feel better. What about our day?
You Have Daddy Issues
Men assume that women who don’t call their fathers either have bad dads, no dads, or bad relationships with their dads. None of those perceptions work in your favor. Never pay so much attention to a guy that you forget about your family.
Weigh In!
Tell me what you think about these “mistakes”. Do you agree or disagree?
Doing so implies to a man that you may lack self-confidence. Looking good isn’t all about trying to achieve perfection. It isn’t about caking your face with so much makeup that you look like someone else. No man wants to wake up in the morning to find your makeup all over the sheets. Think: More confidence, less makeup.
You Check Your Phone Constantly
This is disrespectful to the man you’re on a date with. When your man is around, try to keep your smart phone addiction hidden. It makes you seem obsessive-compulsive when you’re always peeking down at your phone or you leave it out on the table. It’s annoying, and it makes him feel less important. Just throw it in your bag and enjoy yourself.
You Talk Nonstop About Work
There are more interesting things in life to discuss than how much it sucks to fill out reports every day. If all you can talk about is your job, that means you lead a very boring life and you won’t be much fun to hang around with.
You Don't Support Guy Time
Doing this will instantly make you appear insecure and controlling. Whoa there, missy. You’re messing with one of the sacred man rituals now. It’s a necessity, not an option. Instead of ranting and raving about our guys’ night, put that energy to positive use and go out with your girls.
You Drink a Lot of Champagne
This could mean you’re too materialistic; too focused on status. The last thing men want is to be involved in a relationship where money and status is more important than anything else. What if we can’t make a buck? What if we don’t have the biggest house in our neighborhood? Will you want the guy in the huge house with a pool down the street? Your choice of beverage is painting this picture of our future life together.
You're Clumsy or Awkward
This says that our sexual compatibility is in question. When we’re up, you’re down. We try to connect because we’re attracted to each other, but something just seems off. If we’re not connecting on the dance floor, how are we going to connect in the bedroom? To increase flexibility and become more in touch with your body consider a dance or yoga class.
You Want Another Tattoo
This could tell him you’re not done living your youth. Like it or not, your tattoo says more than you intended. He’ll wonder if it was just a one-time things or if your wild side could return just as he’s starting to like you?
You're All About You (and Your Pet!)
If you’re guilty of this, it may tell a guy who wants to get serious that your timetable for having kids is at odds with his. This may seem innocent, but it can be overkill. How are we supposed to compete with that playful, furry, and loyal friend who probably came before us? We’re not sure we’re ready to take on the responsibility for this pet, especially because we know what’s on your mind next — a baby
You Don't Eat Leftovers
This means you could be financially irresponsible. The truth is, your staunch refusal to eat leftovers goes far beyond being a little weird. Let’s put it this way… you’re throwing out food. So if you’re throwing out a necessary component for survival — where else are you choosing an “ideal” over a “this will do”?
Your Party Photos Are All Over the Web
If he sees your photos all over nightclub and party sites, he’ll think you’re a party girl and will be unable to settle down. It’s cool that you go to clubs. But there’s a difference between just going to clubs and being a club regular. It’s a recipe for disaster if you’re trying to hold down a relationship.
You're Short on Bridesmaids
This means you might be too needy, and we won’t be able to be independent of each other. First of all, having two sisters and one friend doesn’t count. When men see a lack of close friends in your life it is cause for concern. Will you get pissed off every time we want to hang out with our friends? Will you be latching onto us every time we’re out with each other?
You Get Dressed Up for Sporting Events
This could tell a man that you’re unable to adapt to different situations. Beware of how you dress at sporting events because if you send the wrong message your man may go running. If you’re more focused on looking “cute”, when everyone around you is dressed comfortably, it says you can’t relax. We have visions of waking up in the morning to grab breakfast with you pulling on the back of our sweats as we’re walking out the door. saying, “You’re not wearing that, are you?” Ditch the fancy outfit and just relax.
You Complain Constantly
No man likes constant negativity, period. Negative attitudes can be the death of a relationship, especially when the other half naturally has a positive attitude. Everyone could, if they wanted to, complain about their day. There are good things and bad things that happen to all of us. When we talk to you after a hard day’s work, we don’t want to spend all our time consoling you and making you feel better. What about our day?
You Have Daddy Issues
Men assume that women who don’t call their fathers either have bad dads, no dads, or bad relationships with their dads. None of those perceptions work in your favor. Never pay so much attention to a guy that you forget about your family.
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Tell me what you think about these “mistakes”. Do you agree or disagree?
Monday, January 16, 2012
10 Things Never to Say to a Man You Love
Whether they admit it or not, a man's ego is a fragile thing. Here, guys dish the ten things they like to hear least.
1. I can't wait to see what you're doing for my birthday.
2. Are you ... crying?
3. If we leave right now, we'll have time to stop by Bed Bath & Beyond.
4. Do you need help lighting the grill?
5. I'm putting this whole conversation on my blog.
6. You had so much hair back then!
7. I don't care how big and drunk he is, he shouldn't be talking through the movie. I'm going to say something.
8. Actually, it doesn't happen to every guy.
9. We're vegetarians now.
10. My dad can fix that; you should call him.
1. I can't wait to see what you're doing for my birthday.
2. Are you ... crying?
3. If we leave right now, we'll have time to stop by Bed Bath & Beyond.
4. Do you need help lighting the grill?
5. I'm putting this whole conversation on my blog.
6. You had so much hair back then!
7. I don't care how big and drunk he is, he shouldn't be talking through the movie. I'm going to say something.
8. Actually, it doesn't happen to every guy.
9. We're vegetarians now.
10. My dad can fix that; you should call him.
8 Rules to Keep Her Happy
Unfortunately, every relationship meets its share of problems. But you can head off fights and ensure little things don't blow up into big messes by strengthening your bond. Here's how.
1. Build Capital
Flowers, foot rubs, and any other gestures of goodwill are best extended when they're least expected
2. Flirt Like She's Watching
Seasoned veterans have learned the limits the hard way. Here's a simple rule: Never say anything to another woman that you wouldn't want your significant other to hear. So, what if you're at a party and you realize you've been talking to a smoldering brunette for 20 minutes? Consider the line crossed. Cut off the hot chick (midsentence, if necessary) and move back over to your lady. Fess up (a simple "sorry" is enough) and make nice. Acknowledging a mistake starts to undo it.
3, Be Angry, Not Pathetic
The one-word indicator that a relationship needs a defibrillator? "Whatever." Conflict sucks, but it's actually a sign of an engaged relationship. It's far worse when one — or both — of you shuts down emotionally.
4. Don't Coach Her
Say you're great at snowboarding, and she stinks. How can you teach her without causing her to hate you? You can't. In fact, she might already hate the fact that you're better than her at something — and she's continually reminded of that fact every time she bites the fluff in a flurry of limbs and fiberglass. Smart money buys her a lesson and doubles back at the end of the day for a few coed runs. Compliment her on what she's learned, and massage all those sore muscles on her backside.
5. Clean to Her Peeves
News flash: You don't have to keep everything clean all the time. You just have to keep the mess out of her hot zones. Collect intel: Figure out what she cleans first — the kitchen counter, the toilet seat — and make sure you're never the source of messes.
6. Help Assess Her Dress
Any formal event or social engagement involving friends or family she hasn't met means you have to pony up three crucial pieces of information: who will be there, what they will be wearing, and what everyone will be doing. Tell her at least a week in advance. Want extra credit? Look up the weather.
7. Don't Force Your Friends on Her
She hates Joe. But Joe is a great guy — I mean, come on, he's the friend who took down that bottle of Goldschlager and streaked through the dining hall your freshman year. Exactly, she's thinking. So compromise. You can go out with Joe; just don't bring him home. And meet Joe out with her once in a while. But agree in advance that when she's had it with him, she can give you a signal (the ear tug, the hair toss, the neck rub) and you'll acquiesce. She'll love that you let her take the social reins.
8. Choose Jealousy Wisely
Odds are, she's not thinking of her ex-boyfriend every time she wears the sweater he bought her 5 years ago. It's just warm. It's cashmere, for Pete's sake. But she also probably wasn't just looking for companionship if she stumbles in at 4 a.m. after a trip to his apartment to return some CDs. Ration your response: Suck it up if you're inventing the cause of jealousy; stand your ground if you're not. Remember: She loves you more than you know. And she definitely loves you more than she loves her ex.
1. Build Capital
Flowers, foot rubs, and any other gestures of goodwill are best extended when they're least expected
2. Flirt Like She's Watching
Seasoned veterans have learned the limits the hard way. Here's a simple rule: Never say anything to another woman that you wouldn't want your significant other to hear. So, what if you're at a party and you realize you've been talking to a smoldering brunette for 20 minutes? Consider the line crossed. Cut off the hot chick (midsentence, if necessary) and move back over to your lady. Fess up (a simple "sorry" is enough) and make nice. Acknowledging a mistake starts to undo it.
3, Be Angry, Not Pathetic
The one-word indicator that a relationship needs a defibrillator? "Whatever." Conflict sucks, but it's actually a sign of an engaged relationship. It's far worse when one — or both — of you shuts down emotionally.
4. Don't Coach Her
Say you're great at snowboarding, and she stinks. How can you teach her without causing her to hate you? You can't. In fact, she might already hate the fact that you're better than her at something — and she's continually reminded of that fact every time she bites the fluff in a flurry of limbs and fiberglass. Smart money buys her a lesson and doubles back at the end of the day for a few coed runs. Compliment her on what she's learned, and massage all those sore muscles on her backside.
5. Clean to Her Peeves
News flash: You don't have to keep everything clean all the time. You just have to keep the mess out of her hot zones. Collect intel: Figure out what she cleans first — the kitchen counter, the toilet seat — and make sure you're never the source of messes.
6. Help Assess Her Dress
Any formal event or social engagement involving friends or family she hasn't met means you have to pony up three crucial pieces of information: who will be there, what they will be wearing, and what everyone will be doing. Tell her at least a week in advance. Want extra credit? Look up the weather.
7. Don't Force Your Friends on Her
She hates Joe. But Joe is a great guy — I mean, come on, he's the friend who took down that bottle of Goldschlager and streaked through the dining hall your freshman year. Exactly, she's thinking. So compromise. You can go out with Joe; just don't bring him home. And meet Joe out with her once in a while. But agree in advance that when she's had it with him, she can give you a signal (the ear tug, the hair toss, the neck rub) and you'll acquiesce. She'll love that you let her take the social reins.
8. Choose Jealousy Wisely
Odds are, she's not thinking of her ex-boyfriend every time she wears the sweater he bought her 5 years ago. It's just warm. It's cashmere, for Pete's sake. But she also probably wasn't just looking for companionship if she stumbles in at 4 a.m. after a trip to his apartment to return some CDs. Ration your response: Suck it up if you're inventing the cause of jealousy; stand your ground if you're not. Remember: She loves you more than you know. And she definitely loves you more than she loves her ex.
Friends + LIKE + LOVE + Marriage + Babies + ?
Everyone knows that males mature slower than females. Even into adulthood, it's said that a man's maturity level is 5 years less than his actual age. Women reach full (mental/emotional) maturity at age 25. But men don't reach full (mental/emotional) maturity until age 30, or would that actually be 35? I don't know. I just know that fart noises are still funny to me and probably will be for some time. So when it comes to dating, a good rule of thumb is for women to date a few years older and for men to date a few years younger.
Nevertheless, by the time you enter your late 20s things start to change. One night stands and random hook-ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. And girls you once dated are now announcing their engagements! If I learned anything from grade school it's that first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby carriage. While marriage at this point in my life is still somewhat frightening to me, it's nowhere near as terrifying as having a baby! Just typing that four letter curse word, baby, causes a little bit of pee to trickle down my leg.
I feel for women because they have a problem men don't have - a shortage of time. I know as women enter their late 20s their biological clock is tic-toking away. And many start feeling the pressure from family and friends to snag a guy, settle down and have that baby. Of course most guys in their age demographic are too busy giggling over farting noises to hear (or care) the tic-toking of her biological clock. And there lies the problem. People are often in different chapters of their life. So for people to assume you are ready and willing to start a certain phase of your life just because you "hit that average age" seems rather presumptuous and kind of rude. They fail to consider where you are in life or what you want out of life. And most importantly, what precedence (if any) will marriage, kids and career play in your life.
Nevertheless, by the time you enter your late 20s things start to change. One night stands and random hook-ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. And girls you once dated are now announcing their engagements! If I learned anything from grade school it's that first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby carriage. While marriage at this point in my life is still somewhat frightening to me, it's nowhere near as terrifying as having a baby! Just typing that four letter curse word, baby, causes a little bit of pee to trickle down my leg.
I feel for women because they have a problem men don't have - a shortage of time. I know as women enter their late 20s their biological clock is tic-toking away. And many start feeling the pressure from family and friends to snag a guy, settle down and have that baby. Of course most guys in their age demographic are too busy giggling over farting noises to hear (or care) the tic-toking of her biological clock. And there lies the problem. People are often in different chapters of their life. So for people to assume you are ready and willing to start a certain phase of your life just because you "hit that average age" seems rather presumptuous and kind of rude. They fail to consider where you are in life or what you want out of life. And most importantly, what precedence (if any) will marriage, kids and career play in your life.
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"safe sex; if you are going to make love with the person whom you love so much, do it wearing the safest thing - a wedding ring"
HOPE
Sometimes in life hope is the most dangerous thing. Hope can lead us to believe in something. I never believe in hope cause it helped to destroy. I only believe in trust and honesty.Everyone can give you hope but not everyone can give you trust and believe. My believe is you are always mine and cause of that I always be yours. xx xxx xxxxxx :)
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